Jeff: Adam was always a bright and happy child. He was also quite stubborn. As his father, I always found that frustrating in one respect, but I also admired it. I'm a believer that stubbornness is an innate belief in oneself and that it will provide you courage to follow your own path, no matter where it takes you. As it turned out, that was very much in Adam's favor.

From the very beginning, Adam was never interested in sports. In an effort to jump-start his interest, I pretty much brow beat him into signing up for soccer at the tender age of four. I told him that if he would play just one game, then he could quit after that if he didn't like it. He reluctantly agreed. I knew he would like it if he would just try it.

From the very first practice, it was evident that he just didn't have that "fire in the belly" attitude it takes to win. He was so passive. Winning just wasn't that important.

When the big day of his first game came around, he really didn't care. His performance, or lack thereof, was as you might expect. His team lost, but I don't think he knew. This really bothered me and when I asked him about it, his response was, "I want to quit soccer."

I said, "You can't quit soccer, you made a commitment."

He said, "No, you made the commitment, I want to quit."

I hate losing an argument to a four-year-old so I talked him into a few more games. He did, but even I could tell this was going against his nature. He would rather be pedaling around in his miniature Volkswagen car by himself, happy as could be. And even as much as I wanted him to play sports, I was smart enough to realize that I was going to make everybody miserable making Adam fit into a mold of my own making.

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